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		<title>By: How to Work with Your Toughest Client: Your Family &#124; Jason Chew</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to Work with Your Toughest Client: Your Family &#124; Jason Chew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 18:03:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] There are times, though, when you can&#8217;t turn down a friend or family member without causing a major rift. This post provides some pointers to help make friend and family projects go more smoothly. If you enjoyed this post, you may also like Working With Friends and Family Can It Ever Work? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: How to Work with Your Toughest Client: Your Family &#124; Cyber Web Designs</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to Work with Your Toughest Client: Your Family &#124; Cyber Web Designs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 12:54:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: How to Work with Your Toughest Client: Your Family &#124; How To Web Design Easily</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 00:32:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] There are times, though, when you can&#8217;t turn down a friend or family member without causing a major rift. This post provides some pointers to help make friend and family projects go more smoothly. If you enjoyed this post, you may also like Working With Friends and Family Can It Ever Work? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Search Freelance Projects &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Manifesto for a Freelancer with a Family</title>
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		<dc:creator>Search Freelance Projects &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Manifesto for a Freelancer with a Family</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2010 02:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Open Thread: Do You Ever Work for Free? &#124; World&#39;s Greatest T-Shirt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Open Thread: Do You Ever Work for Free? &#124; World&#39;s Greatest T-Shirt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 20:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Search Freelance Projects &#187; Blog Archive &#187; There’s More to Freelancing Than Working from Home</title>
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		<dc:creator>Search Freelance Projects &#187; Blog Archive &#187; There’s More to Freelancing Than Working from Home</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 08:18:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Radek</title>
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		<dc:creator>Radek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 16:25:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been thinking about this for some time now. I think one good approach would be to tell friends/family members that you can do something for free (As Mo said, limit it to 1 project) BUT this thing will have the least priority. 

Inform them, that you have not set any finish date because client work comes first. If anything important comes up, their project will be postponed. It is quite polite, if you play it right, they might understand the situation without problems. This will also make them more likely to pay for your service ( you can offer a small discount ).

Regards,
Radek</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been thinking about this for some time now. I think one good approach would be to tell friends/family members that you can do something for free (As Mo said, limit it to 1 project) BUT this thing will have the least priority. </p>
<p>Inform them, that you have not set any finish date because client work comes first. If anything important comes up, their project will be postponed. It is quite polite, if you play it right, they might understand the situation without problems. This will also make them more likely to pay for your service ( you can offer a small discount ).</p>
<p>Regards,<br />
Radek</p>
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		<title>By: Работать вместе с друзьями или родственниками &#8211; возможно ли это? &#124; ProFreelancing.ru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Работать вместе с друзьями или родственниками &#8211; возможно ли это? &#124; ProFreelancing.ru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 04:19:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Mo</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 21:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I made a rule that I do 1 free project for any family member that would like one --- after that I refer them elsewhere if they want more work since I don&#039;t feel comfortable charging fam.  That&#039;s worked pretty well.  Because the 2nd time around, they can&#039;t claim I don&#039;t care about them because I&#039;ve already done something for them in the past. I clearly let them know that, yes, we&#039;re family, I love you, but I have to pay bills too.

One easy way to squash free work requests from friends is, make them do all the pre-project groundwork --- gather pictures, do the necessary research, etc --- in the same effect of what Matt Keegan mentions above --- show them it&#039;s not a simple process.  I don&#039;t ever have to say &quot;no&quot;, and I&#039;ve found that they never mention it again.

There&#039;s a danger to the general &quot;I rub your back, you rub my back&quot; policy that Amelia Sauter story sort of encompasses in her comments above.  Sometimes, someone can&#039;t repay a favor to a friend who&#039;s helped them when that friend wants it.  It&#039;s happened to me, and nearly destroyed a friendship.  I prefer that either money changes hands, or it&#039;s known from the start that it&#039;s free --- no &quot;favors&quot; --- because the gray area is hard to navigate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made a rule that I do 1 free project for any family member that would like one &#8212; after that I refer them elsewhere if they want more work since I don&#8217;t feel comfortable charging fam.  That&#8217;s worked pretty well.  Because the 2nd time around, they can&#8217;t claim I don&#8217;t care about them because I&#8217;ve already done something for them in the past. I clearly let them know that, yes, we&#8217;re family, I love you, but I have to pay bills too.</p>
<p>One easy way to squash free work requests from friends is, make them do all the pre-project groundwork &#8212; gather pictures, do the necessary research, etc &#8212; in the same effect of what Matt Keegan mentions above &#8212; show them it&#8217;s not a simple process.  I don&#8217;t ever have to say &#8220;no&#8221;, and I&#8217;ve found that they never mention it again.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a danger to the general &#8220;I rub your back, you rub my back&#8221; policy that Amelia Sauter story sort of encompasses in her comments above.  Sometimes, someone can&#8217;t repay a favor to a friend who&#8217;s helped them when that friend wants it.  It&#8217;s happened to me, and nearly destroyed a friendship.  I prefer that either money changes hands, or it&#8217;s known from the start that it&#8217;s free &#8212; no &#8220;favors&#8221; &#8212; because the gray area is hard to navigate.</p>
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		<title>By: Pros and Cons of a Public Price List &#124; Red Button Reviews</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pros and Cons of a Public Price List &#124; Red Button Reviews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 13:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
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